Q&A

I am intrigued by your column. I am curious to know if marriage is on the cards for me. When I was about ten years old, a wandering sadhu had stopped by our house. I was playing in the garden. When my grandmother came to give him alms, he told her that I would remain unmarried. She was very disturbed. But my father dismissed the forecast and comforted my grandmother with his sound logic. Both my grandmother and father have passed away. My mother often recalls that episode particularly because at 40 I am still unmarried. We have been considering proposals. It just so happens that when we like the girl, she rejects me and when the girl approves of us, we are not too comfortable with the prospects. Please do a reading for me. DR. R. V, HYDERABAD

By the grace of God, marriage is definitely on the cards for you. Know for sure, if you deeply desire, you will get married and lead a happy married life. Amen.

The Oracle urges you and your mother to stop recalling the episode. Should you remember it, affirm "All things are possible with God {or whatever name you choose to address the Supreme Being with} who can write off past karmas and bless anew." Pray for your desire to manifest. You will discover the powers of your prayers.

My parents have chosen a boy for me. We have gone out together a couple of times. I am not comfortable with him. I cannot pinpoint the reason for my discomfort. He is very sweet and courteous. But I feel something is not okay or that he is hiding something from me. I shared my feelings with my mother. But she was like, oh, every girl goes through such anxiety and nervousness, especially when it is an arranged marriage. I shall be very grateful if the Oracle can find out the reason for my uneasiness.

MINI, BENGALURU

You are blessed. Your Higher Self is communicating with you through your feelings. The Oracle 'sees' gay tendencies in the boy chosen by your parents. Please do ask your parents to investigate thoroughly before going ahead with the marriage plans.

I have got married two months ago. Came across your column and am keen to get some guidance on my relationship with my husband. Please do a reading for me. JAYA R, HYDERABAD

A good relationship grows slowly, step by careful step. However, if you go too slowly it will become stunted. Therefore actively develop co-operation and draw up firm plans and guidelines for your partnership: then lasting good fortune, freedom and position will result. For the next three years, you will need to put in your best efforts and at the end of the period, you are likely to find everything your heart desires from this relationship. Amen

Please find the required details attached herewith for a reading. I want to know if my boyfriend of three years and I, have a future together? PINKY, VIA EMAIL

The Oracle advices you against being purposefully intellectual. The warning here is that if your future actions are tailored to a specific end, then your motives may already be sullied with a selfish intent. Hence the answer remains subtle and inconclusive, and asks of you something which you already know in your inmost heart. Very simply, the answer to your question is that your future existence together depends upon your not consciously expecting one.